Friday, February 7

Hallmark's Valentine's Day 2014 - Including the New Sarah Jessica Parker Collection

I don't know who's happier when my seasonal Hallmark packages arrive...me, or my students!

Just check out the great Valentine's Day goodies that are up for grabs for my class:




Disney Sweethearts Minnie (MSRP $14.95)




Bittys Disney Happy Hearts (MSRP $6.95 each)




Suddenly Flowers (MSRP $14.95) 
When you lift off the box, the paper flower bouquet opens up. 
What a nice way to brighten someone's day!





Hearts a-Hoppin' Frog (Special: $15.95 with the purchase of 3 Hallmark cards, MSRP $29.95)
This little guy combines sound (a parody of Feelin' Hot Hot Hot) and movement, as he dances in circles.





But enough about the kid stuff - here are the goodies that I can't wait to use:




In the photo, you can see an adorable Spring Dots Memo Block (I'm a sucker for cute paper and pens; Special $7.95 with any purchase; MSRP 12.95) as well as the Magic Message Reveal Heart (MSRP $16.95). As soon as it's touched, a secret message (Always remember I love you) appears to the holder. Plus, if you twist the top, there's a small compartment inside.





My very favourite items come from the new Sarah Jessica Paker Collection (yes, the SJP - so of course everything is super stylish!) Here you see two patterned gift bags and a couple of Valentines, but the line also includes eight stationery designs, boxes and tissue paper, and more than 70 greeting cards for birthday, friendship, love, thank you, congratulations, wedding and baby. If anyone was looking for a gift for me for any reason, I'd love some SJP stationery...hint, hint...(I have mentioned that I took four day old Maggie to see the Sex and the City movie, right?)

Disclosure: I was provided with the items shown above for review purposes. Opinions are, as always, my own.


Wednesday, February 5

Adventures In Freelance Writing Volume III

If you missed the first two entries in this series, catch up here:

Adventures In Freelance Writing Volume I
Adventures In Freelance Writing Volume II

Successful Query Letter Sample

As promised, I'm kicking off this edition with a sample of a successful query letter which got me my first assignment for Today's Parent. I had queried this editor several times, always with prompt and positive replies (even if the answer was no) and once she was interested in a story and we went back and forth for a bit, but it ended up there was no room in the issue. Here's what I sent her one day last Spring:

"I'd like to propose a topic for your Steps and Stages: Pregnancy section, dealing with truths and myths about second pregnancies (the physical issues). Have you heard that the second time around you'll show sooner, urinate more and feel movement earlier? Well, I've heard it all too, but that doesn't mean it's true. I would interview OB/GYNs for the facts (I have my own connections, but if you have certain medical experts you use that's great), and get anecdotal comments from second time moms. (I know I can certainly share that my second labour was quicker, afterpains stronger and engorgement was lighter, but why?)

While some first-time moms certainly read parenting magazines throughout their pregnancies, I would bet that the large majority of your readers already have one child, and would be very interested to read about how their second (and subsequent, for those brave souls) pregnancies may be the same or different. Since this topic isn't seasonal, you could use it any time of the year.

Please let me know if you're interested, or if you would like me to resend links to writing samples, etc. 

Thanks!
Kate"

She forwarded this on to the appropriate section editor that day, who replied the next day and said that she liked it, and just needed the Editor In Chief to approve the idea. I got the green light on April 24th - and the story ended up in the October issue (just as a reminder about how far ahead magazines plan!)

You can check out the completed article here:



 


You Got The Job: Now What?

They loved your pitch, and gave you the assignment. What do you do now?

Be clear on the details: Read the contract and/or any other communication (e.g. e-mails) carefully to make sure that you know exactly what you're being asked to do. What's the word count? Does that include sidebars? Deadline? I was mortified not too long ago to get back a draft with lots of revisions necessary, because I had gone a bit off track and not covered the angle the editor was looking for. Once you get rolling, it can help to refer back to your assignment notes occasionally just to make sure you're going in the right direction. I checked in with another editor recently just to touch base with how I was drafting up an article - I'll probably be paranoid about that for a while now - and the reply read: "PERFECT! I love the way you are developing it!" Whew.

Get started: Once I have the job, I immediately open a document and start brainstorming all of my ideas. I usually decide right away who I need to interview, and most magazines are fine with a general Twitter or Facebook callout for sources.

For locating experts, Google can come in handy (though you have to be careful that the person you find actually qualifies as an "expert" on the topic), but usually I already have an idea of someone I'd like to speak to based on previous contact or their work in the media, so I'll fire off some e-mails and see who bites. I know Toronto-based magazines are sensitive about trying not to over-represent Ontario and the GTA in particular, so when looking for sources for my article above, I did some Googling and contacted a Midwives association out west and a OB/GYN association out east and was able to find two fantastic sources to interview. It's important to get this ball rolling right away, as it can sometimes take a while to get chats booked. I also find writing less painful (yes, I said it) when it's spread out over time.

Be professional: Always. Make sure your communication is appropriate and positive (even - especially? -on social media). Ask the important questions, but don't expect editors to hold your hand. Thank them for the opportunity - even though hopefully they're seeing it as a win-win situation, it never hurts to use your manners.

While I think I'm a decent writer, there's a huge pool of people out there with talent, and the way you conduct business could be exactly what sets you apart...for better or worse. 

I've even been offered a couple of assignments I didn't ask for, one at a magazine I'd never even contacted, because editors talk. Both started with "Such-and-such an editor suggested that you might be interested in writing a piece on..."

How I Made My Blog Work For Me:

There's no requirement that freelance writers have websites or blogs, but it's certainly a great way to showcase your work, practise your art (is that an oxymoron?) and perhaps make a few bucks. Here's how I use This Mom Loves to my advantage.

Sharing links: Right from the beginning I have had links to my published print work in the sidebar.

Focusing just the right amount on quality writing: I definitely try to avoid errors, but not to the point of obsession. I would say 95 % of my posts are error-free, but I can still go back through them and find the occasional typo. I make an effort not to let it bother me.

Making contacts and running with them: Right from the beginning I knew I wanted to feature interviews with well-known Canadian moms (Momterviews), and Canada AM's Marci Ien was my first taker. After making that contact, Marci has been fabulous about contributing to other blog posts and magazine articles, and when I pitched her the idea of featuring her and her favourite childhood teacher in Professionally Speaking (the magazine of the Ontario College of Teachers) she was game. The article turned out really well - they even did a photo shoot on the Canada AM set where they reunited Marci with that Grade 2 teacher, who still remembers her vividly! It was a great chance to mix my passions for education, writing and broadcast journalism, plus it was my highest-paying assignment yet. Marci also let me hang out on the set of Canada AM one morning, which was super fun.









Accepting review materials and sponsored posts, selectively: While I'm most interested in print publications, being paid for sponsored posts is still freelance writing work as far as I'm concerned, and while I realize you can't pay the bills with Build-A-Bears, being given products for review can still help a bit with the budget if they're the right items. Plus last summer we did Nashville for deep discounts as I was writing travel posts, and went to Centreville, Santa's Village and Legoland for free as promotional opportunities. Be very transparent and make it clear to your readers when products/services have been provided free for review purposes, or you were paid to write the post, and avoid any companies or products that don't jive with the values you hold or the image you want to present. 

Finding the right kind of advertisers: I chose the SavvyMom Media Collective, and I've been very happy with them. I just had to paste in some html code to get the ad spots running, and I have the power to veto any companies I don't want advertised on This Mom Loves (I think I've only ever turned down one or two). I receive cheques based on pageviews (which in my opinion is much better than pay-per-click revenue) which ads a little bit of income, and I'm occasionally offered well-paying sponsored posts with their advertisers as well.

That's it for this edition! As always, I am happy to answer questions from other new writers out there, so please don't hesitate to contact me! I'd also love to know what topics you'd like to see covered in the fourth volume of Adventures In Freelance Writing!


Monday, February 3

Efficient Organization: The Filing Cabinet

I am definitely an organized person. I come by it naturally, and have always seen the value in lists, schedules and everything having its place.

When discussing “The Happiness Project” at book club, one of the members commented “I just don't get how having a clean closet is going to make you happy!”  and I was stunned. Doesn’t everyone get a high from organizing, sorting and purging?

A reader and friend recently suggested that I parlay this area of obsession expertise into more blog posts, and while I’m all for it, I need to explain something.

I would call myself “efficiently organized” – which is not always what organizational-blog readers are interested in. Here’s a perfect example to illustrate what I mean: my filing cabinet.

At home and at school, I have well-groomed filing cabinets, with file folders neatly hand-labeled and arranged in alphabetical order. I’ve used this system forever, adding or deleting files as needed. For this reason, the hand-written labels work well for me.

Most organizational bloggers, though, go for the beautiful photo op. Readers like to see carefully typed labels in fancy fonts, done in a computer program, printed out on special stickers and carefully applied to the files.

But here’s the thing: I already have a perfectly functional system – taking a couple of hours just to change the look of the labels would not at all be efficient. It would be a waste of two hours of my time. Plus, what happens whenever I need a new label? My printing is neat and I never have trouble locating what I need in the cabinet, so it certainly serves its organizational purposes. And while I’m all for things being attractively presented in many areas of life/organization, literally NO ONE else sees my files but me. I’m pretty sure not another soul has ever opened by classroom filing cabinets, and on the very rare occasions my husband goes rooting around for a document himself at home, he’s certainly not complaining. Though I must admit that I did submit to Pinterest-pressure a couple of years ago and replace the folders that weren’t the same colour, which was refreshing. (Yes, I am being serious.)

Without further ado, here’s my very organized, but admittedly not really swoon-worthy photo:




On Pinterest, you can find tons of examples of filing cabinets that are beautifully refinished on the outside, but my cabinet at home (standard black, but in great condition) is kept in a closet, and I really don’t think there would be enough of a return on my investment to spend time beautifying the school cabinets which aren’t even my property.

My tips for filing success:

1. File immediately. People in the staff room the other day were talking about having a “To-File” pile. I never do. If something really needs to be kept (see next point) it goes from my hand directly into the filing cabinet. I open the mail as soon as I get in the door, and I truly do walk right downstairs, items in hand, and file any important pieces right where they go.

2. Only file what you absolutely must. So many things are available on the internet now, and filing within document folders on your computer is a much better idea than adding to paper folders. Getting e-mail notifications of bills and paying online helps with that, as well as removing your name from unnecessary mailing lists. Most of what I get in my mailbox at work, and a lot of what arrives at home, gets recycled. Even if it is something important, like a party invitation, I write the details down in my planner (RSVPing immediately if it’s required) and recycle the hard copy. For holiday cards, I keep a designated spot in the home for them to be collected/displayed. Most other correspondence (e.g. thank you cards) gets read, appreciated, showed to my husband or daughters if appropriate, and recycled. (Sorry if it sounds cold, but if you’re still reading, I assume you want me to be honest about my system!)

3. Whittle down your files on a regular basis. At school, I usually do this in June; pulling out a few folders at a time and whipping through them while the kids snack or work on art, or sometimes in the staff room while enjoying recess conversation. At home, it’s on the summer holidays, sitting in front of the TV. If I haven’t used it in a couple of years, I have multiple copies of it, or I know I can find it on the computer quickly if I need it again, it’s gone. I once read that tax stuff needs to be kept for seven years, so by year eight, it goes in the shredder or the fire pit. (To be clear, I mean the one in our backyard. I don’t camp.) I know I’m weird, but it gives me joy to pare down what’s in my filing cabinet (or pretty much any closet, cupboard or drawer).

So…are you inspired to get your filing cabinets into shape?

I already have a few more questions from a reader to get me rolling with this organizational series, but if you want to get a peek into an area of my home/work/life organization (besides, of course, my oh-so-gorgeous filing cabinets!), please comment, e-mail me, tweet me, etc. and I’d be happy to add your idea to the list.

I will never say that my way is the right way, but I certainly know what works for me, saving me time and making my days (from the crazy mornings to the exhausted evenings and everything in between) less stressful.

If you’re still with me, you may be interested in my previous clutter-control series:

# 2 - Beauty Products (no more contact lens products for me now!)
# 4 - Clutter Flashbacks (including hair accessories and coat closet)



Saturday, February 1

The Happiness Project: February

{You can find the first edition of this series here: The Happiness Project: January}

I regret that I must start February by saying that my book club did not like this one (written by Gretchen Rubin). I'm totally okay with that, as we all have different tastes, and I'm still glad I made them read it. I am a bit surprised though that I was in such a minority when it came to how much I adored it!




Since I actually made my pals discuss it at our book club meeting (evenings have been known to go by without mention of that month's title), I learned the following:

One friend thought the whole idea of the project was a bit self-centred. I disagree, because I firmly believe that when you can find happiness (with no cost to anyone else) those around you really do reap the benefits.

Another mentioned that the author seems like she's already perfect, and trying to be more perfect. I wondered what that said about me, when I feel like the Gretchen and I are kindred spirits? (And believe me, I'm not perfect, nor do I hold any illusions that I am, ever will be, or even need to be.)

Still another said that the whole premise was ridiculous because no one has the time to do a project like this. To be fair, I'm assuming she got a book deal ahead of time, and therefore had some income (either an advance or the promise of money to come) to get her through the year. And the whole "project" (i.e. work) aspect of it isn't what interests me the most. I have no desire to put my goals on spreadsheets and track my progress. For me, the concepts are a little bit more broad and fluid - goals to keep in mind as I go through the month (and year), while holding down my own jobs.

February's goals, for Gretchen, stemmed from the seasonal theme "Remember Love - Marriage":

  • Quit nagging
  • Don't expect praise or appreciation
  • Fight right
  • No dumping
  • Give proofs of love

My first goal is to respect my hubby's wishes that I don't discuss him on the blog, so I'll be brief with my twists on these ideas.

One of my favourite pieces of relationship advice comes from Dr. Phil, and I remind myself of it often: "Do you want to be right, or do you want to be married?" You have to let some things go.

I also need to internalize a reflection the author made in this chapter, related to nagging: "I reminded myself that tasks didn't need to be done according to my schedule". That one's a toughie for me.

When it comes to "proofs of love", I am a firm believer in the deposit/withdrawal theory. You need to make as many love deposits in your relationships as you possibly can, so that when you need to make a withdrawal - large or small, and believe me, I've been there - you're never in a state of overdraft. This doesn't just go for marriage, but with other family members, friends and colleagues. I even think of it with my students and their parents, too.

This month, I encourage you to join me in giving proofs of love as much as you can: go out of your way to do the favour, show affection, give the compliment, make the gesture, and express gratitude. How can you go wrong?

I would love to know if any of you have read the book, and if so, what you thought of it. (I honestly don't mind if you disagree with me...I didn't write it!)


Friday, January 31

School Roundup: January 2014

Despite kicking off the 2014 school year with two snow days, it's been a full, productive month in the Grade 3 class! To save my fingers from typing and your eyes from reading, I'll make this as brief as I can!

Reading

Reading Passages That Build Comprehension: Main Idea and Details. I love this book. Each page has a short text and three multiple choice questions (What's the main idea?, What's a supporting detail from the text? and What would the best title be?) I project it on the Smartboard using my document camera (every class should have one of those). Kids come to the carpet with their set of cards that say A, B and C. I read the passage aloud, and when I ask the questions, kids hold up a letter in response. I can keep a checklist of the number of errors they make, and taking the decoding part out of it really isolates the skill of determining main idea and supporting details. Plus, they feel like they're playing a game! As the year goes on, I get them to do more of the reading themselves.




Writing

We did a lot of letter-writing this month. First, post-Christmas thank you letters (to parents, Santa, etc.), and then letters to Canadian peacekeepers. (See here for information.)  From the list of current operations, we chose "Proteus" in Jerusalem, connecting it to the history of Christianity, and how they are carrying on the work there that Jesus did 2000 years ago.We're hoping we receive some replies! As with almost all writing tasks, we used the laptops, and kids participated in peer and self assessment before submitting their work.


Art



Ripped-paper Penguins - yep, as seen on Pinterest: http://www.pinterest.com/pin/175288610470523710/


Dance

Hannah Beach "I Can Dance": these are interpretive dance picture books and CDs. I would read each book, then play the CD as the kids danced around the room in whatever way they wanted to express each idea (e.g. elephant, fire, angry, pink, smooth, spaghetti). They did written reflections at the end (their thoughts are perfect to include in report card comments for extra personalization). I always ask them to come up with their own book idea, and one child suggested "I Can Dance Jesus, because he is everywhere and in our hearts and he is our Lord." Aww!




Health/Social Studies

If you teach in Ontario, you have to check out http://education.milk.org/

Regional Dairy Educators make FREE visits to schools, with a choice of topics (nutrition, from farm to table, etc.) I like that there's the option of a presentation all about Early Farming compared to Modern Farming - a perfect complement to the Grade 3 Social Studies unit on Early Settlers


Religion

It's that time of the year again for the Family Life/Health unit, which in Grade 3 goes as far as egg cells and sperm cells. (I can talk openly with 8 year olds, yet I am blushing as I type this.) Of course, someone asked "But how do the egg and sperm get together?", a question I referred back to their parents. (You're welcome.) For this unit, the kids also bring in photos of themselves as babies and learn what they weighed, if they were early or late, etc., which they love to share.

Math

We finished up Data Management (the kids - and I - always love doing surveys, collecting data and creating graphs). Now we're starting measurement, which includes time. Elapsed time is a particularly difficult concept for many of them, so I make up a sheet with our start and end times for every subject and recess. Kids draw the hands on the blank clocks and figure out how much time we spend on each segment of the day.





Social Justice

Our Student Government group led a used children's book drive initiative, which was an overwhelming success. We collected over 1200 books (board, picture, early reader and chapter). The books were delivered to our local Ontario Early Years Centre, where they are available free of charge for any families who need them.

There's a lot of research to show that the number of books a child has at home is related to their reading skills, and many families just can't afford to stock their kids' libraries, so this was a way we could help. Because the kids at our school come from a variety of economic backgrounds too, we're also trying to make sure that some of our social justice initiatives don't cost the kids a thing - all they had to do in this case was bring in items that they don't need anymore, which was free and painless, but could still provide them with the feeling that comes from helping others. And let's be honest - I'll do anything to get people organized and de-cluttered!




Book Orders

On the topic of books, I send home the Scholastic Book Orders every month, and I love how it earns us free resources for the classroom. For Christmas, I gave the kids each a $5 Scholastic gift certificate so that they could all have a chance to order a book, and most of them took advantage on the January order.

As a final note for the month, just so you know what kind of class I am blessed with, I wanted to share this note left by a supply teacher one day when I was out for a meeting: "Thank you for having me in today. Your class is so well behaved and very helpful. They were very good at staying on track, and knew exactly what to do when they finished activities early. I couldn't have asked for the day to be any better."

This earned the kids a period of free computer time on the class laptops!

Hope your January has been as worthwhile and exciting! With Spirit Week and Valentine's Day ahead in February, 2014 shows no signs of slowing down!


Monday, January 27

"The EveryGirl's Guide To Life" by Maria Menounos

I just finished rereading another gem from my bookshelf: The EveryGirl’s Guide To Life by television reporter Maria Menounos (you may know her from ExtraTV, or her time on Access Hollywood, Today, or Entertainment Tonight).

In her book, Maria covers a huge range of topics, from decorating and organization (this gal could give me a run for my money!) to hair and makeup to work and travel, with an incredible number of tips for women.




You might think that as a television personality, Maria’s suggestions might not exactly apply to you (and I will admit her closet is to die for) but as the daughter of Greek immigrants with incredible worth ethic, Maria keeps it real and stretches her time and dollars in the same way most of us do. Not only does she do her own hair and makeup for her daily TV appearances (most of her counterparts spend two hours getting “done”; Maria does her own in less than half an hour) but she, her partner Keven and a friend set up and photographed the cover shoot for her book, with no additional staff required.

Of course I’m fascinated by the lives of those who work in broadcasting, so I had a particular interest in the book, but I took away all sorts of practical ideas ideas (cleaning tricks, packing tips and work suggestions) as well as soaking up Maria’s “famous reporter” lifestyle.

Her sections on diet and exercise are very thorough, and while she’s much more dedicated than I am in these areas (she details how she lost 40 pounds several years ago) she’s also pretty realistic and practical about health and fitness – again, very accessible for what she calls “the EveryGirl”. Though I have to say that I could never get on board with one carb per day! (Her second book is coming soon, focusing specifically on diet and fitness.)

The book is packed with photographs of not just Maria, but her gorgeous home and many of the interesting people she’s met or interviewed (the Obamas, for example).

While I feel a bit old/experienced for a few of the topics, I still pick up new ideas every time I read the book (which is why it gets to stay on my shelf, rather than being passed along as most of my books are).

The EveryGirl’s Guide To Life would be a perfect gift for a young woman starting out – maybe someone entering the work force, or someone who just rented her first apartment or bought her first house.

You can follow the hardworking Maria Menounos (as I do) on Twitter at: https://twitter.com/mariamenounos


Sunday, January 26

Valentine's Day Decorations: Quick, Easy and Cheap!

What better way to celebrate my fourth blogiversary (why, thank you!) than by sharing some festive holiday decorations?

Before having kids, I didn't put up too many knickknacks for Valentine's Day, and even now I just put touches here and there in the main area of the house. I highly recommend Dollarama for family-friendly seasonal décor, as well as Pinterest for tons of great DIY ideas. Here's what you can find in my open-concept main floor area this year:

I love wreaths, especially on the mudroom door in my very neutral-toned kitchen. From Thanksgiving to Easter, there's a pop of colour in that prominent spot (if not dollar store, this one may have been from Zellers).




How can you go wrong with little dollar store hearts hanging in random places?




This was one of my first Pinterest-inspired projects (I blogged about it here) - 
my XO frames, on the half-wall right inside the front door.




I've gone a bit crazy using old photos to decorate for each holiday. These ones show Frannie 
and Maggie, each on their first Valentine's Day, in front of their traditional gifts from Daddy - 
a single rose for each of his girls.




Again, a Dollarama find:



This one's a new addition as of yesterday. I saw something similar on Pinterest, only it was larger and the candy hearts formed a big heart. My visual spatial skills aren't that good - I couldn't get the heart to look the shape I wanted it. Plus, I have this thing about rows and symmetry, though I tried not to be too careful with this piece. (Frannie: "Wow...you sure are into using frames for decorations, mom!")




Holiday window-clings are a must at our house. I will admit (to no one's surprise) that when the girls were really young I kind of micromanaged this task. And by micromanaged, I mean that I would let them do it, and then fix it all when they were done. Now, even five year old Maggie is able to space the hearts and Cupids in a visually pleasing way.




I've written before about my organizational strategy of holiday-themed bins, which include seasonal books. The girls are currently enjoying these stories, just pulled out of storage and unseen since last Valentine's Day. Any books that they've outgrown are passed along to a coworker with younger children.




A small bit of storage for the Valentine's Day greetings that will be arriving chez Winn 
(yep, it's from Dollarama).




Since I spend so much time in the kitchen (sorry if I just made your drink come out your nose), it's a great place to add a festive touch. These are new from Target this year as well. (I also have my eye on another cute wreath there, but need to decide if it's hardy enough to hold up on the front door or not. With open concept, there's not a lot of place for hanging.)




Hope you enjoyed that quick little holiday tour. As you can clearly see, I don't spend a lot for these sorts of items, and they're more for the kids than for adult enjoyment, but I do love to have some seasonal touches around the house.

For more Valentine's Day ideas (including some classroom crafts), check out my Valentine's Day Pinterest Board.

Speaking of holidays, I guess I should get to opening all of my blogiversary cards and gifts now. The traditional fourth anniversary gift is flowers, so the vases are ready...


Wednesday, January 22

Deep Thoughts on My Blogging Voice

A very lovely and loyal reader e-mailed me earlier this week with some amazing feedback (I do know her in real life, but no, she's not related to me!)

The subject of her e-mail was "Thoughts", which could go in any number of directions, but what was on her mind ended up being very valuable to me.

She complimented me on my recent posts about writing (Adventures in Freelance Writing Volume I and Volume II), saying that they have a different energy than a lot of my other posts: "I just find that you are much more animated and the writing comes to life- your personality shines through," she wrote. "When you write about things that sincerely interest you, it changes your writing style." 

This really got me thinking, as I feel that most of the time I do choose topics that interest me - and it's definitely a freedom I appreciate, being able to write what I want when I want, especially when I also have the regular experience of writing to please editors - but there certainly are times that I write posts because I think there's a market for them, and not so much because I feel passionate about the topic myself. Definitely something to keep in mind when planning ahead for This Mom Loves. That's not to say that I need to close the blog off from ideas that are a bit out of my comfort zone, but I need to make sure that I'm letting loose and being myself if I'm going to put something out there.

Thinking about the things that I am passionate about, this friend went on to say: "I'm not suggesting you are square (hee hee)" - her parentheses - "but you are highly organized and efficient in your home life, as well as your career, and this is a talent that I think you should consider focusing on in your blog."

She did suggest that, based on what she knows about me (and what she would love to see as a reader) I should consider more organizational posts, perhaps incorporating questions from readers (she even threw in a few to get me started)! And you know what? I think that's a great idea. I am a very organized person, but in an efficient way, which may not be what some readers are looking for (not all organized people are efficient, which I will explain when I start tackling these questions!)

This was a slow blog week for me, with report card deadlines by day and magazine deadlines by night, so it was a great time for me to step back and absorb this feedback.

Thanks to this friend and reader...and to all of you who support me here at This Mom Loves! Hope you're ready for more organizational and writing posts, information about books and education in general, decorating before and afters (three projects being planned), more celebrity Momterviews and some fun products that my girls and I really like...because that's what's in store around here!