Wednesday, December 4

NOVICA Fair Trade Artisans - Win a $150 Gift Certificate!!!

Perhaps you've already heard of NOVICA, one of the leading fair trade artisan websites, but I was just introduced to this gem of a site a couple of weeks ago.

NOVICA works with National Geographic to give talented artisans around the world a place to express their artistic talents and provide access to the world market, and they have thousands of top fair trade corporate gifts, accessories, jewelry and home decor items on their website.


Shopping categories include jewelry, fashion, home decor, paintings, unique gifts...they even have a wedding collection! You can choose by the region you want to support (Brazil, India, Mexico, West Africa, etc.) and with over 30,000 handmade treasures to choose from, you're sure to find something for everyone. (Don't miss their "Daily Deal" on the homepage as well!)


What I love about NOVICA is knowing that my purchase can make an impact on someone who truly needs it...it's feel-good shopping!


I browsed the site to see what ideas I could come up with for the members of my household:

For Seven Year Old Frannie:














For Five Year Old Maggie:





For my husband (he likes to have greeting cards on hand for staff/school community, and he and would appreciate knowing that there was a story behind these ones):





For me!

Tree of Knowledge bookends:



And...not sure why i'm on a tree theme but...




It's not too late to shop for Christmas! Shipping usually takes 2-3 weeks, but look for the green bow symbol beside certain items guaranteeing arrival before Christmas. You may want to consider some of the following categories:



NOVICA has generously provided a $150 gift certificate for one lucky This Mom Loves reader! All you have to do to enter is fill out the Rafflecopter form below (I keep experimenting with different methods of entry and Rafflecopter seems to work well.) Extra entries for leaving a comment about NOVICA, or following This Mom Loves on Twitter, Facebook, or through e-mail.

The contest will end on Thursday, December 19th at midnight Eastern time...good luck!







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Monday, December 2

Interview Advice From Barbara Walters

As a regular "viewer" of The View, I recently decided to read the memoir "Audition" by Barbara Walters. It's a fairly large tome, at around 600 pages, but since I had hours to sit at the LASIK clinic, I made it through in no time. 

In the book, the now 86 year old Barbara details her childhood and personal life (including her 3 marriages, a couple of affairs, and relationship with her daughter - at times troubled, now strong), but what fascinated me most was her career path. Since I wasn't even born in 1976 when ABC lured her away from NBC to become coanchor of their Nightly News (with a salary of $1 million a year!) I can't even begin to understand what that meant for women in broadcasting at the time.




I was also quite interested to learn behind-the-scenes information about The View, including the true stories behind the departures of Star Jones and Rosie O'Donnell, though the book was published in 2008 (with an update in 2009) and lots has happened with the cohosts even since then.

My favourite parts of the book are when Barbara shares tidbits from her many interviews. As someone who is intrigued by conversations with celebrities, and has had the opportunity to do a few myself, I soaked up her tips for future reference. (Okay, sure, her subjects are a little higher-profile than mine, and perhaps having your interviews televised for millions is a bit different than having them in print on a little ol' blog, but humour me!)

What I learned from Barbara's example:
  • do your homework: scour clips, watch movies, try to surprise them with something they wouldn't expect you to know (I do that, though I also worry that it might freak them out if I know too much!)
  • write every question you can think of, and whittle them down after
  • read your questions over so many times that you really don't need notes/cards
  • the biggest mistake is to be tied to the questions, especially ones you haven't written yourself (not a problem for me, but once I hire an assistant I'll have to remember this!)
  • try not to interrupt
"Asking the right questions has always been less important than listening to the answers," she writes. After my first two interviews, as I scrambled to type out the subjects' responses, Laurie Gelman kindly gave me some advice about the technology I could purchase in order to record my phone calls, therefore enabling me to be a bit more active in the conversation! Technology has evolved over the last four years, and now with the "Remember" app on my BlackBerry, I'm all set!

I also really enjoyed her chapter about her favourite (and least favourite) interviews, which she opened with: "Everyone should have a chance to be an interviewer. You get the opportunity to ask all the questions you would never have the nerve to ask in real life." My problem is I still think of it as real life, and sometimes feel timid about asking the hard questions. It's much easier when, in my head, I can blame an imaginary editor who really wants the story - hard to do when I'm my own blog editor, and really don't have to answer to anyone!

Case in point: my recent interview with designer Jillian Harris (already one of my most popular posts ever). I knew she wanted to promote her (amazing) new vintage business, but I also knew that my readers would be expecting me to ask at least a couple of Bachelor/Bachelorette questions, so I did...but apologized in advance! I know she has worked very hard to make a name for herself as someone who is talented in her field (she's also now the resident designer on the Love It Or List It spinoff, Love It Or List It Vancouver), and I imagine that she's sick and tired of answering questions about the reality shows she appeared on once upon a time.




The current cast of The View

By the way, while I certainly have some least favourite interview subjects (everyone has been kind and professional, it's just that some are painfully difficult to talk to), unless someone's offering me millions for a tell-all memoir, those will go with me to the grave. My favourite interviews are always the ones done on the phone (as opposed to email, where the Q and A's are so much more simple) and they're the ladies who really elaborate and go into detail, giving me lots of material to work with. It makes sense that the broadcast journalists and TV personalities I've profiled are great at doing that!

While I have to admit that I skimmed some of the book (portions of the childhood information, and some of the interviews that were before my time) it was a really enjoyable read for someone like me who's so into the world of television journalism.

Friday, November 29

Family Fun in Montreal

As the daughter of a French teacher/die-hard Habs fan, trips to Montreal were a family tradition growing up, and my brother and I have tons of memories of the hotels, restaurants and of course hockey games that made up our childhood visits. This past weekend, we went back as one big (well, there are ten of us, including spouses and kids) happy family to share the tradition with our own children.

We loaded up our immediate family and left after school on Friday, with very smooth driving right into downtown Montreal (about five hours of driving time, plus a stop for dinner). We stayed at Square Phillips, a very central location where each family had their own mini suite, complete with kitchenette. To be honest, the suites are probably even better for families who actually intend to cook food during their stay (that would never be me, plus breakfast is included in the cost of the room) but it was certainly handy to have a fridge.

I had the best intentions of exposing my children to educational Montreal attractions like the Biodome or the Montreal Science Centre, but we decided to take a less scheduled approach to the weekend, and instead do some wandering. Saturday morning found us strolling (me: walking briskly) the streets of Old Montreal, and while I stopped long enough to take a cute photo of the girls with their cousin in front of Notre Dame, it was chilly so we moved pretty fast!






When I interviewed Montreal native Jessica Mulroney and asked about Montreal destinations for kids, she had suggested taking them to the Old Port, adding: "but I would make that trip in the summer, otherwise the only thing that you will remember from that trip will be the COLD!" So it was a no-go for this weekend. (If we do go back in the summer, I'll also be looking at La Ronde amusement park.)

On the way back, we stopped at a drug store and I picked up a couple of French magazines, hoping to get some journalistic inspiration (or maybe some ideas for future pitches/stories) from my francophone counterparts.




After lunch (we ordered delivery for both that meal and dinner) the ladies left the kids at the hotel with dads/Grandpa, and spent the afternoon shopping: a couple of sweaters from Simons and my big purchase, a statement coat. I had seen it on the Marilyn Denis show, and when I learned it was from French Connection, I called the Montreal location and asked if they could hold on to it for me until Saturday, which they kindly did.




I ended my shopping spree at the Clinique counter at the Bay, where a lovely salesgirl helped me choose the right foundation for my ghostly Irish skin. "You're pretty fair, so let's start with number three...huh, too dark. Number two then....wow. You're really pale! I guess it's number one!" She also talked me into a primer, and since if I spent a little bit more I could save $10, I also bought a small boxed set with mascara, eyeliner and makeup remover. (After LASIK, I threw out all my old eye makeup so I could make sure to start fresh and not jeopardize anything with my newfound eyesight!)

The highlight of the whole weekend was, of course, the Canadiens game. They were hosting Pittsburgh, my brother's favourite team, and his son was decked out in a Penguins jersey while Frannie - attending her first NHL game ever- was sporting her Habs sweater.




I know I like to call myself a writer, but I truly do not have the words to convey the feeling of a Montreal Canadiens home game. There actually seems to be something in the air, and if I try to describe it, I'll either sound sound cheesy, get it wrong, or both. It was incredible. Oh, and the Habs won, bien sûr.

We'll definitely take the kids back for a summer visit...too bad I can't convince the Canadiens to play in July!


Wednesday, November 27

Designer Jillian Harris: The "Charlie Ford Vintage" Interview

Sure, you may have first seen Jillian Harris on The Bachelor or The Bachelorette (and been intrigued by her theory about a guy's personality being linked to his favourite hot dog condiments), but this Canadian designer is way more than "former reality show contestant".

In addition to running her own firm, Jillian is the resident designer on Love It Or List It: Vancouver, plus she has a pretty fantastic website (www.jillianharris.com) where she blogs about not only décor, but also fashion, food and life in general.

As if this weren't enough, Jillian recently launched a brand-new business with cousin Tori Wesszer and friend Alyssa Dennis called Charlie Ford Vintage, where the ladies work together to find and curate unique vintage and antique pieces and organize them all in one accessible and attractive online location for shoppers to discover and purchase.

As her popularity as a TV personality grew, Jillian was asked more and more "Where did you get that vintage piece?" She wanted to have a place to direct her fans, and so Charlie Ford was born. (First the baby - not hers - then the business. Huh? Read on for details!)





Why vintage, and can you pinpoint the conception of Charlie Ford to a particular moment? {This Mom's note: the company is named after her cousin Tori's son - I'm glad Jillian realized I was talking about the conception of the business, and not the child - that would be a bit too personal for this blog!}

I think it all comes down to, why NOT vintage? New things are always great but there’s so much life left in old pieces, too! Tori, Alyssa and myself  have loved old things since we were little girls. My mom owned a little antique shop where she let me help out with the merchandising as a kid, and it stuck! Last October, Tori and I were on one of our antique picking trips, and we came across these awesome old ammo boxes. We threw around the idea of recreating them to sell on my website, but quickly realized that the reason we loved them was that they had lived this amazing life and had a story to tell, which you just don’t get with new pieces. From there, we quickly came up with the e-commerce concept of Charlie Ford Vintage, and the rest is history!





What is your day-to-day role with Charlie Ford?

Haha, how about resident stress-case and over-reacher?? No, in all seriousness, I absolutely love my role as Creative Director, but it’s hard to nail down exactly what my job description is because I really do cover it all. I oversee all the items we choose, help stage and photograph them, then put them up on the site. I also manage all of our support staff, write blog posts, handle media appearances, run the social media accounts…you get the idea. It’s exhausting but incredibly rewarding.




What are the best three adjectives you can think of to describe Charlie Ford to those who haven't yet heard of it?

Accessible, informative, chic.

{This Mom's note: I have to agree with those adjectives, though I would also throw in "highly addictive". In the process of researching for this interview, I may have browsed the Charlie Ford collection just a little bit. And purchased a ring. That looks something like the one in the photograph below. I also love how the items are clearly categorized - art, furniture, jewelry, etc., you can refine your search by price or see new items first, and there are even "basement" items on sale!}





I read in another interview that you've turned down opportunities because they don't fit with your brand. I know you're not going to want to name names, but what sorts of things don't jive with who/what you want "Jillian Harris" to be?

Well, for one thing, I really don’t like it when I’m asked to appear like something I’m not. I am definitely my own person, so whomever I’m working with needs to embrace my quirks or it’s a no-go. For instance, before I officially accepted my role on Love It or List It Vancouver, I made it very clear that I didn’t want to fight with Todd on-camera. While we’re obviously rivals on the show, we’re also super good friends, and I wanted to be able to joke around without coming across as mean.

Obviously, it’s also very important to me that the designs I work on align with my tastes and how I’ve built my reputation as a designer. I will never create a home that’s cold or impersonal – it has to give people the warm and fuzzies or I’m not into it!




How do you think your career would be different today if you hadn't had the experience of The Bachelor/Bachelorette?

I have no clue how my career would have turned out without The Bachelor and Bachelorette, but I do know that that I have absolutely no regrets (except for maybe those hut tub scenes – sorry mom!) I was so incredibly lucky because people responded to me really positively and I was put on the map, so to speak. I worked really, really hard to get where I am today and I’m incredibly proud of everything I’ve accomplished. It’s really a privilege to be able to do what I do day in and day out – I am totally aware of that.

Do you still keep in touch with anyone from past seasons?

Not very many, unfortunately, but there are a handful of people I still keep in touch with, including Molly and Jason Mesnick (yes, the Jason that broke my heart once-upon-a-time!) I actually designed the nursery for their new baby girl, which was such a pleasure to do. They’re incredibly sweet people and I’m glad we've all remained friends over the years.

From what I understand, this former "Bachelorette" has now found love. We want to know about Justin (and not least of all, what he puts on his hot dogs!)

I have, and I feel so, so blessed!! Justin is such an amazing guy, I’ve waited a long time for him but it’s worth it. He’s sweet and funny, and reminds me that I need to take time for myself, which is something I often forget. He’s a great communicator and helps bring that out in me as well. As for the hotdogs, he’s a ketchup and mustard kinda guy.




What are three things you still have left on your career bucket list?

Honestly, if I can get Charlie Ford Vintage to a place where it supports me and my family, that would be it. I’ve done so many things throughout my career, and that time is coming where I’ll be ready to slow down and smell the roses. CharlieFord.com is my baby and it’s what I love to do…now it just needs to pay the bills!

Three things from your personal bucket list?

It’s hard to keep it down to just three! Definitely a couple of kids, more travel (can’t get enough!) and finishing the reno on my house in Kelowna.
 
Since I seem to be in list mode, three things on your Christmas list?

GREAT question, and this time I’m not going to bother to keep it down to three things! We have some amazing pieces up on CharlieFord.com that I would be ecstatic to find under my tree:

·        I’m a sucker for jewellery, especially baubles that I can stack. This Birks Gold Wash Bracelet is an amazing pre-loved piece at only $85. A total steal!

·        Trophies are super hot home décor items right now. This one from the 1930s is from a goat show – how cool is that??

·        I’m obsessed with vintage glassware, especially pieces with a ton of personality. This Schweppes seltzer bottle from the 1930s is the perfect addition to any home bar.

·        As you know, I love unexpected accessories that add personality and a sense of intrigue to a space. This industrial table fan from the 1920s would be super funky addition to a den or dining room.

·        Old photography is so amazing because it offers a literal glimpse at a time long ago. This photo of the “Victoria Rifles,” the 24th Battalion of the 5th Canadian Infantry Brigade, dates back to 1914 and is an incredible piece of Canadian history. Perfect for a funky gallery wall!





Finally, because I'm an Irish girl and enjoyed reading about your travels on your site - what's the number one attraction that I can't miss if I ever make it to Ireland (you should know that I'm NOT a beer drinker)?

Oooh this question is a bit of a toughie because we visited SO many amazing places in Ireland, even though we were only there for a few days! For natural attractions, the Cliffs of Moher are an absolute must-see. Talk about an epic view! St. Peter’s Cathedral and Dublin Castle are incredible as well (you know me and my love of history!). And I know you’re not into beer, but if you visit the Land of the Leprechauns and DON’T go to the Guinness brewery, you’re missing out!

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Thanks for sharing with us, Jillian!

Now, dear readers...if you want $10 off your first purchase at Charlie Ford, please let me know (leave a comment with your e-mail address, or send it to me at katewinn77 at yahoo dot ca). If I "invite a friend" and you make a purchase, I get a discount too, so we both win! And believe me, we will have no problem finding items to buy, though keep in mind that these pieces sell quickly, and once something's gone, it's gone for good - don't wait!

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Jillian Harris on Twitter: https://twitter.com/jillianharris
Charlie Ford on Twitter: https://twitter.com/ShopCharlieFord
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Tuesday, November 26

Holiday Gifts For Caregivers: Special Guest Post

Today I'm welcoming Katie Bugbee from care.com, here to share her thoughts on holiday gifts for some of the most important people in our children's lives! (You may also want to flash back to my post called "What Teachers Really Want For Christmas".)

What Gifts Should You Give Your Child's Caregivers?

'Tis the season to spend, spend, spend. And in the effort to make this the best day (or 8 nights) ever for our own kids – there are some other VIPs to shower with love – the ones who care for our kids on a daily basis: the daycare center workers, in-home daycare owners, preschool teachers, babysitters and nannies who make our lives work. And who love our kids!

But what do you give someone who devotes her days (and possibly nights) to taking care of our little ones – so that we can run our families, our businesses, and have a little fun with our SOs?




This guide should help you budget and plan for what to give each care provider in your life.

Day Care Center Employee: I'm not sure how much you know about each employee working in your child's daycare. Often there's a teacher, a co-teacher and then classroom helpers. Giving to each person can seem overwhelming. However, you should give something. I know families who have given homemade food to the whole center. And then given gift cards to each person. But don't just give food. Giving a Target card or Amex Gift Card would help these caregivers do their own holiday gifting. I'd give a bit more to the teachers than to the assistants, but still give to everyone who helps your child. It will be very much appreciated.

In-home Care Owner: Something sweet or sentimental could be very nice. You are in her home each day, but may not know this person enough to add to her décor. An Edible Arrangement or food item is a nice idea, or a gift certificate to help her add supplies to her business.

In-home Care Employee: Similar to the day care center employees, give gift cards to help with their own holiday bills.

Preschool Teachers: I'm told teachers love getting gift cards for classroom supplies. So when in doubt, head to a local book shop, arts + crafts place or grocery store where they can buy snacks. But if thinking about just them, go for a certificate to a spa or local lunch spot. Since parents tend to be in close communication during the preschool years (email lists tend to be disclosed), someone can organize a group gift so the value is more significant.

Elementary School Teachers: I actually love these gift ideas, especially the clever t-shirts. But let's face it, teachers have a lot of mugs and knick-knacks. What they could really use is a gift card for coffee or to a local spot for them to get lunch, dinner or drinks with friends after work. But packing it up with a funny mug, thoughtful book or beautiful orchid is a nice touch.

Babysitters: Depending on how often your sitter helps you, this amount will range. If this is a regular sitter, who helps a few hours a week, give an average week's pay as a tip. If it's a date-night sitter who always seems to make herself available to help you and SO get some alone time, give an average night's pay as a tip.

Nannies: Just like sitters, nannies expect to receive a tip at the holidays. It's what your neighbors are doing. It's what they hear about from nanny-friends at the playground. The average tip is 1-2 weeks' pay. You can also add a nice, thoughtful gift from the kids (with the gift receipt).

What other gift ideas have you used for the caregivers in your life?




Katie Bugbee is the senior managing editor and resident parenting expert at Care.com.

{Just a note from This Mom - we buy Christmas gifts for all of our girls' teachers - homeroom, Music, Integrated Literacy, etc., and they're all getting gift cards except for Frannie's homeroom teacher, since she's a close friend and when I saw a deal on chandelier statement necklaces I thought of her. I actually let her choose her colour - there goes the surprise! Our before-and-after provider and evening sitters are getting cash bonuses because, well, who wouldn't want money?}

Friday, November 22

My LASIK Experience

LASIK is a medical miracle. At least I'm still hoping it's going to be...

A few weeks ago I shared info on my LASIK consult and plans to proceed with the surgery. Last Friday, it actually happened. Please be aware that all of the information I share here is based on my experience at the LASIK MD clinic in North York, and might not necessarily be the same at other clinics offering the LASIK service (mine was Advanced Custom Wavefront LASIK - a treatment necessary because of my high presciption and large pupils).

I took my contacts out a week in advance. 24 hours is the requirement, but when I had my consult the tech mentioned something about my left cornea, which he thought would go back to normal after removing my lenses for a few days. If not, the surgery might need to be postponed or cancelled, so I wasn't taking any chances. So, I had to wear my glasses for 6 full days, which totally drove me crazy at first, though I did kind of start to get used to it.



Mom and Dad drove me to North York the morning of my procedure (yes, I'm 36 and went with my mommy and daddy, is that a problem?) We arrived early, at about 9:30 and I began filling out paperwork. Then the waiting began. Oh, the waiting. Between paperwork and surgery there was a 15 minute pre-op exam, and another 15 minute meeting with the counselor to go over questions, paperwork and payment - 30 minutes of action which took place over FOUR HOURS, until I was finally called into surgery. I kept thinking I was going to be next, and would be disappointed when someone else's name was called, but eventually, I made it in!

The surgeon introduced himself and asked if I had any questions. Really, by that point, I just wanted to get things moving. I was asked to put on a hairnet-type medical cap, and to lie down on the operating table. Numbing drops were put in my eyes. (Warning: if you get squeamish or don't really want to know the details - especially if you're contemplating the procedure and think too much information might freak you out - skip the next paragraph.)

Next, my left eye was covered and the action happened on my right eye. It was taped open, and I could tell that something was inserted to hold it that way. (Ladies, it sort of reminded me of when another type of medical professional inserts a device to open something up. Sorry.) The surgeon asked the assistant to "apply suction", and I could feel that on my eye, as the vision went temporarily dark. I was then asked to look at a coloured light, and I did my best to do so as things kept changing. I felt absolutely nothing during the laser part of the procedure, when basically a flap is made in the cornea, which is then pulled back so corneal tissue can be removed to improve the vision, and then the flap is replaced. I felt like I could tell visually when the flap came back, but maybe it was just my imagination. Each eye takes less than a minute to do (I said the rosary, as per my mother's suggestion, while making good use of the squeezeballs I was provided with in the OR). Then we were onto the left eye.

While I didn't time it, I'll bet I was reclined on the table for less than 5 minutes in total. I was asked to open my eyes, and nothing hurt - just felt a little bit scratchy - and the surgeon did a quick exam. I was then escorted out to the lounge area for (oh yay) another waiting period. An assistant came by occasionally with drops, and then my eyes were taped shut for the last 20 minutes or so of my stay, to help the flaps begin to heal. My parents returned, and after almost 6 hours in the clinic, it was finally time to go!

I was provided with a prescription for the drops I would need (purchasing them on-site is also an option, and if you have benefits you can send in the receipt). There were two sets (in addition to two sets of over-the-counter drops), and I was warned that one may leave an aftertaste in my throat...and it sure did. (Seriously, eye drops leaving an aftertaste. Still trying to figure out the physiology of that one. Also really makes you wonder about how chemicals applied to one area of the body - hair, nails - can actually travel to other areas. But I digress.)

A next-day followup appointment is mandatory, and while I decided not to bother spending the night, and instead drive  back the next morning, there were moments when I regretted that choice. In particular, an hour stuck in traffic on the 401 when I know I uttered the phrase "this had better be worth it".

I wasn't in pain, per se, but a lot of discomfort. My eyes were very watery, with heavy lids, and every time I tried to open them the light seemed way too bright. Patients are provided with fairly unattractive sunglasses, but even with them on I was still sensitive to daylight, and tried to keep my eyes down in the car, which I'm sure led to some carsickness, which led to putting the window down, which led to chills...I felt like I had the flu, but please be clear that it was not directly related to the surgery, but the fact that I should have just gone immediately to a hotel where I could have slept. According to the times I was given on my "drops" schedule, I had to put some in at various intervals during the drive, which also wasn't easy, but the lubricating drops really did help with the discomfort. My left eye bothered me more than my right, and I know the my vision prescription for that eye has always been stronger, so maybe it required a bit more work. It was also "bruised" (bright red spots) by the suction, so maybe that made it more sensitive as well.

By the time the sun went down and traffic cleared, I felt tons better. We picked up some drive-thru (I was finally having lunch at 6:00 pm) and I joined back in the conversation.

Considering my procedure took place at 2:00, the fact that I felt back to normal by the time I got home is pretty impressive. Oh, and then there's the whole vision thing...by bedtime, I felt like I was wearing my contacts, my vision was that good. The hardest part was the fact that I wasn't supposed to read, watch TV or use any devices that night...which really threw off my normal Friday evening routine!

The drive back to North York for my checkup the next morning went smoothly. My right eye was almost 20/20, with my left eye a bit farther behind, but everything was on track. I dropped my glasses off in the donation bin, scheduled my one week checkup for the Whitby location, and headed home.

Since about day three post-op, my right eye has become blurrier, and the regression concerned me, but a quick call to LASIK and I was comforted by the knowledge that that's a very common occurrence, and the "final results" won't be apparent until 1 to 2 weeks after the surgery.

Last night I had my one week checkup (well, it's been six days but I'm heading out of town tonight - a whole other blog post) and was told that what I'm experiencing is very common. Basically because my prescription was so high, lots of tissue had to be removed from the cornea, so when the flap was replaced, a gap was left in between. Because of this, it may take longer for the flap to fully smooth out over the cornea, and the technician could see some tiny folds and cracks that will take time to disappear (he believes that they will, but I do have a lifetime guarantee on the procedure, including "touch ups" if necessary, I just hope it doesn't come to that).

While trusting that the right eye will get back up to speed, I am pretty confident that the experience will be totally worth it. As someone who has worn contacts for almost every waking hour of every day, I often just think I still have them in, until I stop and register that no, I'm actually seeing that well with nothing in my eyes. People who wear glasses would notice even more of a lifestyle change, though it was a big deal to throw away my contact lens cases and solutions and give my glasses cleaner to my Dad! I'm all about simplifying and streamlining. (Packing for this weekend's trip was that much easier, especially since glasses and contacts solutions always have to be packed right before departure, and can't just be thrown in the suitcase days in advance when I pack everything else.)

Please feel free to ask if you have any questions. I would never have done it without the testimony of my mom,  brother and sister-in-law, so getting firsthand information from someone really makes a difference with the decision making process and stress level.

Tuesday, November 19

My New Blog Design Revealed! (Merry Early Christmas To Me!)

So...notice something a bit different?

If you're reading this directly on the blog, hopefully you can see that This Mom Loves has an entirely new look!

Thanks to the amazingly talented Kassie from The Cutest Blog on the Block, I've undergone a complete redesign and I absolutely adore it. I also should say thanks to my hubby for the early Christmas gift!

Me: Do you want to give me a blog redesign for Christmas? That way you won't have to shop.

Him: (Do I really need to tell you what his answer was? Though I'm pretty sure there's one more little parcel coming on December 25th.)

So...if you're reading this through email or elsewhere, please humour me and come on over to check out the new look (you can just click on the title of the email, or this link: http://www.thismomloves.blogspot.ca/).

When you check out the new and improved This Mom Loves, you'll see that Kassie has given me a totally fresh look: a header, background, sidebar icons, new fonts, a button and even a cute little favicon that you might be able to see beside the address bar in your browser.




I am so glad that I went with The Cutest Blog On The Block (not a freebie, by the way, I paid in full...or should I say, hubby did!): there was no wait time at all, the process was very straightforward, and Kassie replied to most of my emails within minutes. She made all the tweaks and changes I asked for, and while I don't think I was too difficult to deal with, I was picky about certain things - for example, while lower case letters may be trendy, I couldn't handle having my name and titles not begin with capitals! Maybe it's a teacher thing!

I also deleted some of my old sidebar gadgets for a more streamlined look, so please take a peek there, too. At the top you'll see all of the ways you can connect with me (Twitter, Pinterest, Facebook or through e-mail), followed by a little welcome message, and farther down you can check out the list of all of the celeb Momterviews I've done, my published articles (Today's Parent, Parents Canada, Professionally Speaking, etc.), my blog archive (just in case you're dying to know what I was writing about in, say, June of 2010), and labels, so you can search by subject.

After three and a half years with the old look I figured it was time to freshen things up, and Kassie certainly did that. I am a bit sad to replace the cute little cartoon image of me reading to the girls, but I'll always treasure that picture. I'm actually thinking it might look good framed in my office!

Now you know I want to hear your thoughts (especially positive ones!), so please, leave me a note and let me know what you think!

Hallmark Christmas 2013: Win an Interactive Storybook!

I always love when my Hallmark Press Pause boxes arrive on my doorstep, and this Christmas package was no exception. (My decorations are already up, of course, but I can always add more!) Read on for details, and a chance to win one of my favourite items!

Here's what I found inside my care package:




Santa: Be In The Story book, Pics 'n' Props Christmas Fun Kit, Yule-K-Lele, Totally Ticklist Goofy, 'Let It Snowmen' 5 Piece Ornament Set, 'Blink Along' Musical Scarf and an assortment of holiday greeting cards

More details on my top three favourites:

Pics 'n' Props Christmas Fun Kit

I love how these props can all be used for photo ops and celebrations - perhaps as part of your Christmas card photo?



Santa and the Christmas Eve Flight: Be Part of The Story

Hallmark has come out with tons of great books, and 'm particularly a fan of their recordable books, where kids can hear beloved adults reading to them even when they can't be there. This one's a bit different: when highlighted lines in the book are read aloud, Santa replies with a question for your child. Once he/she answers, Santa responds back, and the story continues. Very fun and interactive, and a great way to motivate little ones to enjoy books! (Psst - this is the prize I'm giving away!)




Yule-K-Lele: 

So much fun for kids and parties, this "instrument" plays six holiday songs and as you strum faster, the song speeds up with you. Do you think I'll actually be able to convince anyone that I'm musical? My students *might* fall for it...




Want to win a Santa and the Christmas Eve Flight: Be Part of the Story book? All you have to do is leave a comment below, making sure there's a way for me to contact you if you're the winner. This contest will have a quick turnaround so the winner gets time to enjoy the prize before Christmas, so the draw will be made on Tuesday, November 26th at 11:59 p.m. Eastern.

Good luck!

Disclosure: I was provided with the above-named products for review purposes. Opinions are, as always, my own.